Hello Ladies, I’m currently writing an article based on compromise. I just wanted to write about a few things that I’ve observed over the past few years.

But first, I have to say, women have had to cope with so much in this world. It breaks my heart to know of some of the experiences women have had to live through. But, there is an answer and it depends on you if you want your life to change and/or if you want to change someone else’s life, for the better.

Ok, here we go. I know of sex trafficking that women have gone through. I’ve heard the stories about women having to dress and look a certain way in different countries. I’ve heard about and read stories of abuse in the morning paper. There are so many things that women have to face and I am just so fed up with it all.

But, there is something that came to mind that, in a way, can bring you to the answer you may be looking for. Compromise.

Without stepping on any toes, I will be careful to explain what I mean. Some women get into and stay in relationships that are abusive, mentally, physically and emotionally, due to compromise. They will believe that they are loved when they are not and think, “If I just do this, then he will do that.” Or, “I will never find anything better so I might as well keep what I have.”

Usually we are emotionally tied to these compromising relationships due to sexual activity. Now, I know I just hit a nerve so please stay with me for a moment.

When we have pre-marital sex, besides all the dangers of sexually transmitted diseases, we are creating soul ties and emotional bonds that are hard to break. They are hard because when we are physical with the opposite sex we release chemicals in our bodies that trick the brain into believing that we need to keep having this good feeling.

In women, a chemical call, Oxytocin is released, which is designed to help you forget what is painful…the truth of the matter. Oxytocin is an emotional bonding chemical. So when you are physical a man you are becoming emotionally involved with him and it will be hard to let him go. A chemical called, Vasopressin has a similar affect in men.

So as it becomes hard to leave a relationship, compromise sets in. It gets even harder when there are multiple partners.

Ladies, there is a way to stay out of compromising situations and relationships that hurt. It’s not a drug, it’s not a magic trick. It’s a truth. His name is Jesus.

He can help you not to hurt anymore. He can set you free from pain. He can and will bring a good relationship to you, one in which you will experience true, deep, compassionate, free love. No compromising, no fears, no abuse.

Would you consider a life long relationship of love? Ask Jesus about it.

Thank you for reading.

God bless you,

Cedric